The chastity cage has invaded in recent years the pages of blogs devoted to alternative sexualities and the shelves of online sex shops.
But do we really know what it’s all about?
The chastity cage, a cage for your sex:
The chastity cage, in case you have never seen one, looks like a small tube, curved in shape, made of metal, and about ten centimeters long.
There is an opening to insert the penis into it and another for the end of the urethra canal, chastity prevents morning erection, not urination. A ring, the diameter of which must be carefully chosen, generally 45 mm, surrounds the testicles to ensure the maintenance of the whole. The shapes are very varied, design obliges, but we note that most models enclose the purses with this ring but other cages are fixed to a belt, still others insert a small plug into the urethral canal.
But if there is one common point to all the models, it is the principle of the key, that of the padlock which closes the cage. An unlocked cage wouldn’t really be a cage, hence that key closure that prevents it from being removed, prevents erection, and allows the partner to check the strength of the engagement.
A cage for which games?
Wearing a chastity cage is not done out of simple coquetry.
On the contrary, it is an instrument whose use is part of a game of domination/submission. Wearing the cage prevents solitary pleasures and even eliminates the idea of erection. It is therefore the partner who has control over sexuality. No need for distance to find pleasure in chastity, the pleasure is that of delivery by an orgasm authorized by removing this cage. People practicing the chastity cage and seasoned see this instrument in the long term, the port can be done over several weeks, and according to very worked scenarios.
The cage for all men?
If the chastity cage is a game that enters into the theme of SM, does that mean that everyone can participate in it? It is often thought that these practices are reserved for an informed public. To tell the truth, everyone can participate and the size of the craft of these gentlemen is in no way a contraindication. Taking your time to get used to this somewhat specific device is an obligation, then everyone has their own scenarios. The vast majority of models allow you to adjust the size of the ring that holds the assembly together. Big b*** or little b***, everything fits in the part reserved for the penis.
An introduction to submission – How to train a man?
Wearing a chastity cage is nothing trivial. Just a boxer one size too small and it’s a wasted day, so yes, the cage is a rather special sex toy since it induces submission games.
It is in this sense an opening to the SM world.
A loyalty game
The softest step in wearing a cock cage, ie in wearing a chastity cage, is to present the object as a loyalty game. Mr. is going on a business trip or training for a few days away from home, why not offer him to wear this particular paraphernalia. As long as the training does not take place in a balneo, it is not a problem. And then we add to that the dimension of the couple, a touch of frustration with the impossibility even of having an erection and even less of solitary masturbation.
Self-control – how to reduce nocturnal erections for wearing a chastity cage?
Even further in games related to the cock ring, we can talk about self-control. If over two or three days we play the card of loyalty, over a slightly longer period, we play the card of mastery of your body. In practice, the cage prevents any complete erection, barely the beginning of blood flow. The sex cannot develop due to the metal casing of the cage. An erection attempt therefore induces relative pain even in the testicles that will have to be avoided by controlling day and night precisely to avoid erections.
Submission to his mistress
Submission and new technologies: The chastity cage is a sex toy appreciated by those who live in a dominated/dominant relationship. From then on, it is generally no longer a question of wearing the cock ring for a short period of time. This is for experienced people for whom the adventure lasts several weeks, or even 2 or 3 months. To this control is sometimes added games around the ruined orgasm, which consists in making your partner ejaculate without letting him reach orgasm.
Submission and new technologies
The world of sex toys has not escaped the global trend that wants everything to be 2.0, including sex toys, dildos and everything that can allow you to have fun. The chastity cage is not yet connected but technological like the E-stim model.
If you were not yet convinced of the SM and submission side of the cage, know that this one is connected to a box which allows its electrification at will by the dominant. From a simple jolt to real punishment, the electrical sensations applied directly to the glans make the session very special.
The key, the purpose of the chastity cage
The models of cages are diverse and varied, just consult the pages of an online sex shop to realize it. However, their common point is this famous key which, paradoxically, we do not always know what to do with.
The key, first uses:
You have just received your chastity cage, sir is patiently waiting to be able to try it on. It is indeed an essential preliminary before starting to play and develop scenarios.
Wearing such an object is not insignificant and you have to get used to positioning it correctly, carrying it and urinating with it without hurting yourself. For the first few days, it is therefore advisable to always have this famous padlock key with you, it is not yet a question of constraint but of adaptation. After these first few days, the key can be kept by the carrier of the cage, but already wrapped in such a way as to prevent access except in the event of a problem, because any access would be noticed. The regulars will end up entrusting the key to the cage to their dominant without fear, and as much in the literal sense as in the figurative sense.
Plastic cages:
The metal of the cage and the lock have a particular aesthetic which contributes to the pleasure of wearing the cage. The shape of the cock ring, the ring that surrounds the testicles, is also part of the design of the set.
But you will admit that going through a security gate, in a public place or at the airport, is rather tricky. Silicone models are therefore available on the market.
Less aesthetic, they are also a little more comfortable for the wearer. There is no longer a padlock, nor therefore a key. The latter is replaced by a lead, a single-use thread that seals the cock cage. A unique number makes it possible to certify the authentic character of the approach, any erection breaking the thread that could not be replaced by the same number.
Chastity cage, make the right choice: the opinions:
Being tempted by the approach of a chastity cage can be a very erotic game between two partners. It is a powerful step from a sexual point of view and perfect for strengthening the bonds of a couple. But before embarking on the adventure, you might as well start by buying the right product. Here is an overview.
The stainless steel metal cage : why choose it?
The metal cage is the most common in the collective imagination, it is also the first to appear on this market. It consists of the tube for the penis as well as one or more rings which make it possible to maintain the testicles and therefore the whole, which is closed by a padlock.
If aesthetics are taken into account, the metal chastity cage is the most striking choice. It should be noted, however, that the cage and the metal of the padlock do not allow you to pass a security check under a gate. As part of a cage to play on loyalty during a business trip, the choice of this material is not welcome. In everyday life, it will do just fine.
The silicone cage , the more comfortable cage:
The silicone causes the cage to lose its aesthetic appearance but makes up for it on the practical aspect. More easily washable, it is also undetectable under a portico, thus causing no concern. The efficiency of the cage is the same and one can wear this cage for a longer period of time. The padlock is replaced by a small wire connected to a unique number. The symbolism is less strong than with a key that you entrust to your partner as you would entrust him with the key to his desire and his pleasure. But the silicon design makes the whole thing lighter and easier to wear. These are models that are generally preferred by beginners.
The leather model, for purists:
If we readily associate the cage with submission, the leather model immediately plunges into this atmosphere as well. Leather, sometimes associated with metal, gives a more singular color to the cage. However, it will only be worn for a short period, in particular for reasons of hygiene, but also for comfort.